Perfectionism is not really about the desire to be perfect. It is about the fear of what will happen if you are not. It is the voice inside that says you have to do more, be more, impress more, achieve more, or else everything will fall apart. And it affects far more people than we realize. Many individuals assume this is simply “how they are” instead of a learned survival strategy shaped by early environments, messages about success, or internalized pressure to prove themselves.